Engagement Session Tips from a Photographer Who Gets It
Engagement sessions should feel like a fun date with a third wheel who happens to have a camera (hi, that’s me). Here are a few things we always tell our couples before their shoot:
Mary and Stan at the Palmer House in Chicago.
Dress Like Yourselves—But Elevated
You don’t need to purchase an entirely new wardrobe to achieve a polished look. Instead, stick with outfits that truly feel like "you," and simply avoid busy prints and logos that can detract from the overall aesthetic. Neutrals or softer colors tend to photograph beautifully, ensuring that you look your best in every shot.
Timing is Everything
Just like your wedding day, golden hour truly is the sweet spot for capturing stunning images. If you desire those enchanting, glowy, and romantic vibes that make your photos truly unforgettable, we will expertly help you time your session around the best and most flattering light.
Location Vibes
Have a favorite place? We’re in. If not, we know hidden gems all around Chicago and beyond—from iconic city rooftops that capture the skyline's breathtaking views to serene forest preserves where nature's beauty unfolds around you. We believe that the best spot is one that feels uniquely like you—reflective of your love story and personal style. Let us help you find that perfect setting to create timeless images that you'll cherish for a lifetime. Whether you prefer the urban landscape or tranquil nature, your ideal backdrop awaits.
Let Go of the Awkward
Most couples say they’re awkward on camera. Trust us: that’s everyone. We’ll direct you just enough to make it feel natural and get those in-between moments that feel like real life. An engagement session serves as a valuable opportunity to establish a rapport with your photographer, allowing you to see how they work and how they interact with you as a couple. This familiarity can lead to more authentic and natural photographs on your wedding day. We believe that the connection you build during your engagement session plays a vital role in making your wedding photography experience truly exceptional. By practicing poses and getting to know our shooting style, you'll feel more relaxed and confident, ultimately resulting in beautiful images that reflect your unique love story.
These are the kinds of things your photographer should be thinking about for you—but a little heads-up goes a long way in making your photos shine. If you’re just starting your planning, I’ve created a free Wedding Photography Guide packed with tips like these and a sample timeline to help you feel more prepared.
Still looking for your photographer? Let’s chat—we’d love to hear about your day.
